A Graduation Gift from the Amazing Flying Kūpuna

 By Emily Harris, Facilitator for Talk to Me Speaking and Discovery Classes

I Am the Amazing Flying Kūpuna!  Okay, then. What’s a kūpuna and how did I become one? Kūpuna is the Hawaiian term for a respected elder. The Hawaiian culture is based on strong communities, and I lived in one on the Big Island this past summer. Being of a certain age and a certain hair color earned me the “elder” part. Conquering several lifelong fears and serving my community with appreciation, participation, enthusiasm, great love, and joy earned me the respected part.

But I got to be amazing from the gifts that I received from each of the valiant women of Truth Be Told whom I have served for the past two years. Those gifts include acceptance, acknowledgement, wisdom, love, support, encouragement, generosity of spirit, and a joy in each moment of life I only dreamed of experiencing.

I flew to Hawaii on an airplane. I flew back on wings of my own. And here I am, amazing, and loving every minute of it. With my newfound wings I dance and laugh and play and recognize miracles large and small each day.

I'm flying!

Because of you, I can fly to the farthest reaches of my imagination where I find you waiting for me.

Time for take-off.

Let’s fly!

The part below was written for the women at the Hilltop Unit and is going to be in The Book of Wisdom along with all of the women’s writing to commemorate their graduation from Truth Be Told classes.


A Graduation Gift from the Amazing Flying Kapūna!

Congratulations! Another feather in your cap! By now you have enough feathers to build a set of wings and fly! And not just fly — SOAR!

There is a belief in some cultures that every living thing on earth — down to the most delicate blade of grass — has an angel by its side whispering “Grow, grow.”

You are each an angel to me, repeating that message over and over. For the past two years, I’ve watched and listened as you have grown into, around, and through your personal stories. You have graciously included me on those journeys of discovery and liberation.

In return, I took you on mine. And this past summer your whispers became the wind beneath emerging wings that made it possible for me to fly! In that moment I conquered a lifelong fear of being lifted off the ground.

I don’t know why I had such a fear in the first place, why I held on to it for such a long time, and why it was so transformational for me to conquer it, but it was and I flew and I am proud of myself for doing it. And it was really fun!

I offer this gift of inspiration to you in recognition of your courage, determination, and wisdom in seeking your truth and speaking it loud and clear! Rachel Naomi Remen has inspired me for many years. She is a medical doctor who uses healing storytelling and respectful listening in her practice. May her words whisper to each of you as you continue on your journey of recognizing and sharing your many gifts:

A single act of kindness may have a long trajectory and touch those we will never meet or see. Something that we casually offer may move through a web of connection far beyond ourselves to have effects that we may have never imagined.

~ From the book My Grandfather’s Blessings by Rachel Naomi Remen

Flying may have its limits, but my thanks to each of you is without limits.  To that I add heaps of love and light.


November 14, 2013

2 Responses to A Graduation Gift from the Amazing Flying Kūpuna

  1. Tonight at hilltop graduation, a graduate mentioned Emily (her facilitator last fall) as a wise woman who was greatly influential in her growth of self confidence & strength. She even mentioned this story (told to them by Emily in a class visit this fall before her move to Pittsburg) though she didnt know a special letter entry from Emily would be awaiting her at the end of the book of wisdon the graduates received tonight. Her face was shining with nervous energy before she SANG her written song to us accapella. Afterwards, it shone with Joy of Accomplishment like Emily’s does from atop her yoga friends platform feet in this pix. Our graduate said this was the first time anyone had ever heard her sing except her Mom.

    We are so blessed to serve her & the facilitators like Emily. What a rich life Truth be Told brings all who volunteer & support. Thank you Emily for continuing to send your lively, exuberant energy our way!

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